Perempuan bukan 'properti'......

Angka kekerasan terhadap wanita naik 200%.
Kekerasan terhadap perempuan dalam tahun 2008 meningkat dua kali lipat dari tahun sebelumnya.
Dalam Catatan Tahunan (Catahu) pada tahun 2008, Komisi Nasional Perempuan mencatat peningkatan jumlah kekerasan meningkat 213 persen dan mencapai angka 54.425 kasus.
Peningkatan jumlah kasus KTP yang 82 persen di antaranya adalah kekerasan dalam rumah tangga (KDRT), tentunya menjadi keprihatinan tersendiri. Terlebih dengan kenyataan adanya fenomena gunung es atau jumlah yang ada belum menunjukkan angka yang sesungguhnya. Padahal telah disahkan Undang-undang No. 23 Tahun 2004 mengenai Penghapusan Kekerasan Dalam Rumah Tangga (PKDRT) yang terdiri dari 10 bab dan 56 pasal, diharapkan adanya perlindungan hukum bagi anggota keluarga khususnya perempuan, dari segala tindak kekerasan dalam rumah tangga.
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My besties mom...

well, this about my lovely mom..for my last 6 months my life has changed, since my mom got serious illness and also my entire life was totally changed. I've lost the character of my mom in my life, my home, and everything(I really miss her bloody much, the way she laughs, force me to eat, accompany her to the hospital or looking for something new in our culinary things, love u mom..). Well, I have to replace her position tomanage the whole things in my house even manage a household thing which is i havent enough time for hanging out with some friends or relatives but sometimes if i think i could i did it too. it's difficult to face it at once but i have to passed those things. Looking at her lying down on the bed with lack of activities where she eats there, took some pills for her illness, took a bath on the bed and her whole day just lying down on there....Now, everytime i look at her I feel soo terribly hurt, sad, useless enough, because all i have to do just taking care of her i hadnt enough capability to release her from the pain. i could turned back time, I would taken my whole time for her in the past. Sometimes she called me to help her in the middle of her slept at the night and sometimes I felt a bit angry about it, so sorry mom i really didnt meant like that. Now, she often forgot the things, she forgot about time, day, date, even her age now.. So sad to knew it, huh? I have 1 brother and ! sister(she's in 8 months pragnancy)and I'm the youngest. In the weekdays I always exchange time for taking care of my mom, all i want is make my mom feels fine, as healthy as before, I believe that she's a struggle woman.. You're strong enough mom, you're an/a attractive, generous, energetic mom! She very rarely getting angry, she's a good mom and a good housewive..I miss u so,mom..Mamah, semangat terus yaa..God, may my mom could be as healthy as before, dont take away her from us, pleasee...we believe that she's gonna be cured...amiennnn!Mom, you're the best! Love u always mama......

kampanye dan tragedi situ gintung

yayaya, skrg kita ada di minggu terakhir kampanye partai-partai politik dimanaa keadaan lalu lintas jakarta yang sudah padat menjadi SANGAT padat yang mengakibatkan saya hampir telat masuk kelas. Huff, hari ini dikabarkan ada beberapa partai politik yang sedang mengadakan kampanye seperti partai Demokrat, PAN, dan GERINDRA. Yaa bs dibayangin doong gmn lengkapnya macet kita di Jakarta inii? Hmm, lagi repot-repotnya mau pemilu kita dikagetkan oleh tragedi jebolnya tanggul Situ Gintung yang memakan banyak korban sertra kerugian baik materi maupun non-materi yang tak terhingga harganya. dari sini kita semua bisa ambil hikmah. kalo ga semua yang kita anggap baik itu baik juga menurut Tuhan YME (itulah salah satu pesan ayah saya), sehingga mari kita semua berdoa untuk para korban agar arwah korban-korban diterima disisi Tuhan YME dan bagi keluarga yang ditinggalkan agar dapat kekuatan serta ketabahan, amiin

Life with its side..

yesterday, I watched a film called a confessions of a Shopaholic. This film gave us about How to respect our oppurtunity and its side of life. She's a shopaholic and yet she feels her life become better if she buy something. Well, we have to buy something that we really need actually. But in fact I often do like that, I admit it's true that if we buy something new it makes me feel soo grateful. So stupid huh?
Well, evereybody has their own problem there's no exception right?
Goodluck with our Life..

Introduction

well, this is my first time to write on blog and blogging either.
actually I'm pretty confuse what I want to write. Hmm, about two days ago I watched a film tittled Across the Universe. This film is a typically a musical film, they re-arrenge several songs from The Beatles. The story is about an immigrant boy called Jude from england who visit US to see his father that he never met before. In the US he found his true friend, a girl and the story goes...I love the scenes, I like Jim Sturgess (he's cool with his british accent, huh?)